• One of my favourite places.
  • It's a Southern California fall day like this that makes me miss my Topanga house in the mountains. You can see more photos on the blog.
  • This time last year I took my first road trip up California's 395 through the eastern Sierra mountains. I went on to Mammoth, Truckee and Yosemite.

It was epic.

The highlights for me were Bodie (Check out my highlights for "ghost town"), Mammoth (reminded me of the Canadian Rockies), and seeing the Donner Party Memorial/area.

It's a super hard state to live in, but it sure is beautiful. (PS: I made a Spotify playlist for just the drive:
  • I posted this in stories but  got so many comments I had to post it here.

I'd read an article which said how common an electric kettle is in the UK/AU but not in America. 
This was so interesting to me because my kettle is probably my most used appliance. But when I stay in homes here I can never find one.

A lot of Americans told me they use their microwave for hot water or they have a stove top.

And @astridpiepschyk explained it had to do with voltage. "Most Americans don’t own an electric kettle because the electricity voltage is too low to power a kettle effectively. In Australia, UK the voyage is 240, but in America it’s 110, and not very effective in boiling an electric kettle. It works, but takes a long time. This is why stove kettles are much more common." So what started as a post about how I love my half shelf for teacups in my 1930s cupboards turned into a great cultural and scientific conversation.

This is why I love Instagram πŸ˜€
  • Ten years ago I moved to Philadelphia to build Anthropologies first Social Media, Content and Community programs.

It was a dream come true for two reasons. One I loved the company and two I was moving in July which meant I'd have an east coast fall.

It did not disappoint.

I spent every weekend out in nature with rosy cheeks, drinking hot apple cider. All this time later, that fall is still one of my favourite s and I miss it every year.

PS: the last photo is my old garage on my one acre property in Chestnut Hill. I had an 18th century stone home which I loved. I don't think I ever really wrote about this place because i never really settled in. Something I wish I'd done but I was just so consumed with work.

Pps: I've done a fall clothes clean out and am posting things for sale at @hyggehouseshop this week
  • I like taking photos at Disneyland that don't look like Disneyland.
  • This is my aunt on my french fathers side. During WWII, she got tuberculosis and was sent to a sanatorium to recover.

To pass time, she and her other young female friends would doll up, take photos and send them plus letters to soldiers to flirt with. Some they knew, some they didn't. Like old-fashioned Bumble. πŸ˜€
She was incredibly smart, witty, and fierce. In this photo she was full of possibilities and hope.

She married soon after to an abusive alcoholic, had four sons and quickly got trapped by circumstance and the era.

She was my favourite family member even though I didn't see her that often. I have one hand written letter from her and this photo which are the few family things I have.

I loved her because she always listened to me - patiently and sincerely. She saw who I really was and was so kind about it and oddly relatable. She gave me direction without advice. She laughed often, was direct when needed and sometimes acted soft. She was the only one who ever called me sweetie (my family nickname at the time was Chuck! and my family never used soft names with each other. So sweetie felt so amazingly special). I had 5 other aunts but I called her just "Aunty" as she defined them all. It was only to her that I felt a connection, unconditional love and a sense of family.

Her situation was always pitiful and dire,  but she never acted like a victim. When I saw her on her deathbed she was so small, weak and wilted from a hard life. But somehow she had always given me courage and strength, as if to say to be the possibilities she couldn't be.

Recently I hung out with my two young adult nieces and they both just called me "Aunty." Not Aunty Alex or Alex. Just Aunty.

It made me feel so special and like we have formed the same bonds that I had with my own Aunty. And that I was now being to them what she was to me. 
But more importantly, they helped me change my idea of her - the one that she never accomplished something. 
Because she did. 
She taught me how to be a good Aunty - one of my favourite things to be. That's her legacy which I think is really beautiful.

Well, that and dressing up when you feel poorly. πŸ˜€
  • The @ojaivalleyinn is one of my favourite places either for a day trip or an overnight. β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β € β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €
I always go when I need supreme rest and healing because I really really get that here. β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β € β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €
There's something so magic and calming about Ojai and this place taps into it so perfectly. And they have the best massages.

My recs? Avoid weekends and holidays. It's insane and the spa isn't as relaxing because it's just so overcrowded.

For rooms, avoid the ones above Libby's Market/Pub (I think they are the original rooms). They're just louder & smaller. β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β € β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €
I've had a suite with a patio, bedroom and fireplace down by the spa that was heaven and I've had a larger room by the main restaurant (I can't remember that buildings name) and both were amazing. This past room was in the Topa building which is their main building and it was really lovely (and had a balcony overlooking the golf course). β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β € β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β € I've  been here with girlfriends, alone, on retreats with work and loved all the experiences. I know a lot of people who come here with kids (@couldihavethat has a recent post in IG and her blog on why it's great for families) and it's also totally dog friendly (@ScoutStCharming has been). β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β € β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β € I  paid for my room πŸ˜€ and received zero things for free. So not am ad, just sharing what I love.
  • I found hope in Hope thanks to nature and my nieces.
  • The bridge next door and the buildings in the park across the street burned down in the Woolley Fire. But the Old Place still stands which makes me so happy. It's my favourite place in LA and I have missed hanging out here. It's nice to be back.
  • Possibilities.


Everyday Hygge

Making a Fairy Garden

July 24, 2016
Fairy Garden at Topanga California Hygge House

When I moved into my home this past spring, wild grass had just been planted. Because it’s not a normal green lawn grass, it comes up in patches and almost has a fern-like look to it. It was coming in pretty haphazard with no rhyme or reason except in one little area that looked like a fairy circle.

Now, my garden has been known to feel magical. I felt it the first time I came here which is one of the reasons why I wanted the house so much. I need a lot of nature in my life and this garden, which was created so thoughtfully to the environment and feels natural in that wonderful, scruffy English garden (but SoCal style) way, fits the bill. It’s been a comfort not just to me but to every guest who’s so far come to stay. They all say the same thing: it’s magic.

So I wouldn’t be super surprised if there were indeed fairies somewhere on the acre of land I have. However, all I have as proof is a potential fairy circle and since I have a young guest coming in several weeks to stay who loves fairies, I’m hoping to create some more ‘proof’ for her and bring my garden to its fullest magical potential.

I googled “fairy gardens” and couldn’t really find what I was looking for. I’m thinking of putting some fairy doors on bottom of my tree trunks. Looking to build some miniature furniture out of sticks so it looks like there’s a fairy home. I’ve seen solar fairy houses that I thought would be great to put amongst the big flower bushes so she’d see them at night. But as most of the google’d images I’ve seen of for terrarium type fairy gardens, I’m having a hard time finding natural look, outdoor garden things to buy or create.

I just re-watched the charming movie, “Fairy Tale: a true story” because I’m looking to create that kind of vibe. I want it to be charming and believable – not plastic and obvious. I’ve also started a Fairy Garden Pinterest board to try to capture some ideas.But ifΒ you have any DIY Fairy Garden ideas or if you know any place to buy things, I’d love to know! So please leave a comment below. Here’s one image of inspiration from the movie:

My Fairy Garden Update:

I put a few things in and it was a hit with my 6 year old friend. She’s very perceptive so I made sure to get houses that looked real. So when she asked if these houses were real I said of course, touch it. Didn’t it seem like they used the dirt and stone around them to build it? To which she replied, oooh! Yes!”

  • Reply
    MimiNo Gravatar
    July 30, 2016 at 4:40 PM

    Be sure to leave some creating to do when your young friend comes. I think she would love to add some special magic as gifts to the fairies, and then maybe they could respond in kind!

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    NikenNo Gravatar
    September 5, 2016 at 10:07 AM

    such a great idea.
    i’m dreaming of my own garden one day. one day….

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    jacquelineNo Gravatar
    March 21, 2017 at 10:40 PM

    So pretty! Your whole blog is just lovely πŸ™‚

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