• I found hope in Hope thanks to nature and my nieces.
  • Reminder: There is always light at the end of the tunnel(s).
  • Possibilities.
  • "After you have exhausted what there is in business, politics, conviviality, and so on - have found that none of these finally satisfy, or permanently wear - what remains? Nature remains." Happy 200th birthday, Walt Whitman
  • Spring is always the most alive after the darkest and rainiest of winters. #hyggehouse
  • "There are far, far better things ahead than any we leave behind." C. S. Lewis. Or, as the Secret Sisters sang, "Tomorrow will be kinder."
  • "It was here in Big Sur where I first learned to say amen." Henry Miller

Friday afternoon I decided to take a last-minute trip up the coast. Every time I've driven it, I've  always had some place to be and up against time.

But not this trip.

Friday I spent time in Santa Barbara and Paso Robles.

Saturday I spent time in Steinbeck country (of Mice and Men is one of my favourite books) and finally drove the G16 across to Carmel before heading up for a quick stop to see of my friends who I would literally drive 8hrs for only to spend 2 hours with.

Today I got up super early and got a super big coffee so I could drive down highway 1, through Big Sur and hopefully beat the crowds.

Henry Miller is the author of some of my other favourite books so as I drove though Big Sur I thought of him and Steinbeck and how they wrote about what they knew, what they loved, and what they questioned. I've had this idea in my head for a new project and community that I know will resonate and mean something but just unsure how to begin.

So I made sure today to stop when I wanted to. Linger when I needed. Drive wherever for however long.

And, after all the times driving through Big Sur, I finally stopped at a beach. I spent two hours here practically alone and just was.

People say it but there is something magic about Big Sur and today was the first time I felt it. I felt the shift, the inspiration, the hunger. And I felt wet sand between my toes. 
I'm ready.

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  • That time I wore 👖
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  • Last week I drove through the area of Malibu that was most hard hit from the fires. It was completely devastated only last December but now, life is blooming again in a way I've never seen it before. The scars are there and it will take 20yeara to get back to where it was but life is back. That's the amazing, heartbreaking and beautiful thing about life. #malibustrong #earthday


Danish Life Wanderlust

Selso Slot (Castle)

May 10, 2019
Selso Slot (Castle) in Denmark on Hygge House

(Note: The photos are from various times from 2007-2017 and the camera quality varies. But they tell the story of Selso Slot and also reflect all my visits there.)

Selso Slot is a very traditional example of a Danish Castle – plain, simple, purposeful – with a history going back to 1100s although its current structure dates to the renaissance in 1576. Brick was 5 times more expensive to use than any other material in the 16th century so some brick was borrowed from other manors or estates, giving Selso a unique look. Also making it unique in Denmark was its (now non-existant) moat, which was created by water access to Selso So (Selso lake).

The inside design of Selso Slot, including all the French wallpapers, dates back to 1735 when it was rebuilt to fit the Baroque style. It was almost always lived in by the German Scheel-Plessen Barons and fully used part-time as a (family) castle until 1829. According to Wikipedia, no one lived in the castle or owned it after 1829. While it’s true that the castle itself didn’t have anyone living in it, the grounds of Selso did.

My mother’s family lived here for 40 years until the 1950’s when Magnus Carl August Wilhelm Otto Carlsen (Baron von Plessen of ​​Scheel) died. The story my family tells is that the baron was kind and fair though he visited very rarely. There was a sense of pride living and working at Selso but in those days, the idea of preservation wasn’t something people thought about and since the owners didn’t live on the property, the castle was never upgraded and left the way it was in 1829. Between 1950 and 1972 it became rundown as there was no one working the land and squatters moved into the property housing (not the castle), and thieves stole door knobs and marble from inside. It was privately bought in 1972 and 30 years later was opened into a museum.

My mother’s father and grandparents lived on the property in the gatekeepers home (the yellow house) which, up until 1829, only titled people lived in. My great-grandfather was known as “Hr. fodermester” and ran the farming operations on the estate, working directly for the Baron. My mother grew up visiting her grandparents and cousins here with memories of playing in the castle (it wasn’t locked in those days), hanging clothes to dry on the second floor and seeing the first floor as a storeroom for grain. 

My history with Selso is through my mum’s memory and family stories and my own visits before it was turned into a museum. The photos below of the inside are from 2007 when my mother and I went to visit and we met the owners who were restoring it. My mother told them her history and they let us into the castle to see it, just as she remembered it from 50 years before. It was a very special, sweet day to see it in that state. And although I’ve been back to Selso many times since (my family’s plot is at the church – see below), I haven’t been back inside since I’m generally only in Denmark in February and it’s only open during the summer.

Selso Slot (Castle) in Denmark on Hygge House
Selso Slot (Castle) in Denmark on Hygge House
The room where a wife supposedly killed her husband before throwing him out the now bricked up window.

Every castle has a ghost story and this one isn’t any different. My mum tells the story of Elisabeth von Thienen, wife to Baron Mogens Scheel von Plessenalson. In 1749, jealous of all of his affairs that he had when he was at their other home in Copenhagen, she stabbed him in his sleep in the room pictured above, threw his body out the window, into the moat, and then killed herself by jumping out the same window. She became known as The White Lady. My mother remembers as a child seeing dark stains in the floor of this room and on a few occasions seeing a woman in white in the window.

Although the story of The White Lady is pretty well-known and accepted, I haven’t been able to verify anything beyond the fact that the Baron was a womanizer and “died suddenly”. There have been conflicting reports of him dying at Selso or Copenhagen but it’s pretty well documented that Elisabeth lived until 1788. So, part of the story could be true. How else do you explain what my mum saw in the window? 😉

The 18th century french wallpaper can still be seen and is pretty remarkable that it has survived all the uninhabited, damp years years.

One of the things I love most is all the windows and their purpose. Selso was built at a specific angle with all the windows to allow for amazing cross-breezes to keep the home cool. It was why, after hundreds of years, when we walked in there was no musty or old smell. The windows kept everything fresh inside by their perfect shape and placement.

Selso Slot (Castle) in Denmark on Hygge House

Before it was opened as a museum and the last time I was inside (2007 I think), the kitchen was in its original state and hadn’t been inhabited or used since 1829. There was no electricity, heat or running water in the castle and the tools you see in the photos above were all original to Selso. The windows in the kitchen had the same thought-process as those above stairs to keep things cool and allow for breezes. It’s the oldest functioning kitchen in Denmark. I think since then they’ve opened this up as a museum it’s now used to sell coffee and baked goods though. I’d love to go back and see how it’s evolved.

Selso Kirke (Church)

Selso Kirke (Church) in Denmark on Hygge House
Selso Kirke

In 2017, my mum and I were updating our family plot records with the groundskeeper when he told us a fascinating story about the Church’s age. It wasn’t until 2015 that the original date of the Church was known. When gas problems occurred they had to take up the church floor, discovering there was an original and round church floor from the 1100’s. This made it one of the oldest Churches in Denmark although no one seems to know why this location would make it so.

It’s a tiny, charming little church with beautiful views of Selso Lake and a place I love visiting. It’s so beautiful and peaceful, with birds always singing and the wind always blowing. My family’s plot (on my mother’s side) is here so when I visit, I always say a hello to them. The Church parking lot is now the parking for Selso Slot and the trail to the castle begins here.

Family Photos

Getting There

To visit you’ll definitely need a car as there is no train or bus service out there. But it’s such a pretty drive you won’t mind. Google: Selsøvej 284050 Skibby

How to get to Selso Slot in Denmark

I found a video showing the of Selso Slot (this is not my video so I’m not sure of the date):

  • Reply
    LisaNo Gravatar
    May 20, 2019 at 10:37 PM

    Thank you for this wonderful update and sharing the pictures and family history. It looks so amazingly beautiful. I check in every now and again to see if you’ve posted anything new. This time I win!

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